I'm sure you've heard the expression fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me...
I pretty much operate on that premise.
I've never been one of those type of people who are guarded and insecure, unless I know for sure I have a reason to be. I just keep my eyes open and watch. I give trust instead of making people earn trust, but it also takes me a while to even decide if someone will actually be my friend...
I trust. I give my love and loyalty to those I'm close with, and I hope for the same in exchange.
Hurt me once, and I can forgive - it will take me a while to heal, but I will eventually move on and learn to trust again. Hurt me twice, and that's it. I shut down - I've lost it. There's nothing worse than betrayal - especially the betrayal by people you love and care for - people you'd lay down your life for.
But maybe that's just me. I am a very loyal soul. Many times whether I need to be or not. I appreciate brutal honesty. Heck - I down right respect that! I am very straight forward - you ask me, I'm going to tell you. In return, I'd much rather be hurt with the truth than comforted and in the end destroyed by a lie.
Trust is key - period! How can you love with your whole heart without being able to trust? You can't...Think about that.
Have a happy day & thank you for reading my blog!
~Jenn
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