Remember that old Carly Simon song, "You're So Vain"?
That's kind of how I feel sometimes when folks read my blog and call me out.
I'll bet you think this blog is about you, don't you, don't youuuuuu....
|Maybe a little strong, but you get the point.|
To set the record straight, unless I've specifically named you or given you a private heads up...It's not about you. OK, maybe that's not completely true - because I have used some real examples without saying so, but they're not always negative examples.
Besides, I have angry blogged AND told the person they were being blogged. See, no problems...If I didn't tell you, It's not you!
Come on folks... Has anyone here, who reads my blog, ever felt that I was afraid to speak my mind? Ever?? Yeah - I didn't think so.
Rest assured, if you're my friend or someone who knows me on a regular basis - you should know that if I have an issue - I'll tell you. I'm not going to blog you. I have no problem confronting my issues directly.
Mostly my writings are past experiences, generalizations and things I've seen over and over again. Many times I post something I'd written a year ago, when certain things WERE relevant, but I didn't want to put them out there. Some things have nothing at all to do with me or my life at all. I just
I always say that we humans have so many common threads. We're all so alike, yet so different. Many times I'll say something & have someone say - wow, that's exactly how I feel today - or who told you that - or why did you say that? Really, it's not you! Really!
It is my hope that my thoughts and opinions and experiences - the good, the bad and the ugly will connect with someone. I hope that there's something that I have done right (or even wrong) that can help someone else, or even put things in a different perspective of, "Hey - I never thought of that" or even "Wow, that's REALLY messed up - I won't try that."
What I can tell you - is that if you know me, you're pissed off about a post & you haven't received a heads up in advance - it's not about you. Get over it!
Now take this kiss & move on, will ya? :)
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